I have been flying with the Fly Lady for about a month and a half now. I finished my baby steps and have set up an awesome routine for during the whole day. I also am working on my control journal. I think I have a great start on it, and I truly believe that when I get done with it, it will be very beneficial to my keeping my routines and the house tidy once the new baby arrives. It hasn't been that hard with our daughter, however, she is only 9 months old, so things are easy. But by the time the baby arrives, she will be a toddler, so I think it might become more difficult. As they at that point will both be demanding more of me. I am up to the test though. If any of my readers have control journals, or household manuals that you have taken the time to put together, feel free to share. I would love to have everyone join in on making our lives easier from day to day. If you live in CHAOS, maybe it is time for you to FLY as well. Why don't you check out Fly Lady as well, you might find exactly what you are looking for to get more organized. I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors to become more loving of yourself and more organized. I will keep all of you in my prayers.